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Call Me Kate
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What's the Story?
CALL ME KATE offers newly available home movies, footage, audio tapes, letters, and conversations with surviving family to paint a picture of cinematic great Katharine Hepburn, who died at age 96 in 2003. The idiosyncratic performer came to Hollywood seeking fame and attention, already equipped with the upper-class accent studios were teaching their young stars, a harsh voice and boyish, angular look. Her 62-year career included more than 40 films (The Lion in Winter, Bringing Up Baby, The African Queen, Guess Who's Coming to Dinner among them), a successful stage career, an Oscar in her 20s, and another three after the age of 60. She was one of the few women in Hollywood to wriggle free from the iron grip of the studio system, refusing to sign multi-year contracts that would tie her up for years and force her into unwanted roles. When Hollywood called her "box office poison," Hepburn turned to Broadway, had a hit in a play she helped develop, bought the film rights to, and sold to Hollywood. As a producer, she got to star in The Philadelphia Story, approve the cast, and select the director. That too, was a hit. An athletic red-headed tomboy with an unabashed masculine swagger, she had long-term live-in relationships with women, which fueled rumors that she was a lesbian, a suggestion she laughs at dismissively in an interview but doesn't deny. Relatives provide interesting insights. In a television interview, her niece falls into a significant silence when asked if her aunt is "fun." Her nephew, Mundy Hepburn, is admiring but blunt. On Hepburn's sexuality, he says, "You can't know and it's none of your business. Who cares, anyway?" He admires her grit and strength but is forthright about her bossy and impatient entitlement. Many people who knew her observe that she carefully curated the persona that would be left behind.
Is It Any Good?
Call Me Kate is a mostly satisfying addition to the many existing examinations of Hepburn's life. Numerous scholarly and popular biographies as well as her own obfuscating memoir, "Me," have detailed much of the information offered here. But director Lorna Tucker has access to newly available audio tapes, home movies, and other footage of the actress at play, mugging, tumbling, skating, swimming, playing tennis, and enjoying friends. This is mostly a criticism-free tribute but some weaknesses are mentioned. Hepburn frequently referred to herself as egotistical and, though not in the film, she once declared, "I would have been a terrible mother because I'm basically a very selfish human being." Occasionally Tucker inserts puzzling visuals that don't match or enhance the subject matter -- a busy man negotiating library stacks and an unidentified woman doing a fan dance.
What feels glaringly absent is an acknowledgment of a fundamental contradiction scholars rarely remark on. Though Hepburn made a career of playing the role model for self-actualized women who live independently, stand up for themselves, and do it without deferring to men, in an important part of her life she was the opposite. Her primary love relationship with the alcoholic and abusive Spencer Tracy, as the legend goes, seems to echo her admiration for a man who turns out to have been an adored, abusive father. The nephew says the father was "really tough on his kids, harsh and abusive by today's standards," and that abuse may have been a reason his eldest son and Katharine's revered older brother, Tom, committed suicide as a teenager. After that, the stoic father insisted the family pretend Tom never existed. No connection is made between her father's meanness and her choice to devote herself for 30 years to an abusive alcoholic. In a telling but undeveloped moment, actor Jane Fonda recounts that during the On Golden Pond shoot, Hepburn noticed actor Henry Fonda mocking Jane, a co-star and producer on the film. Hepburn advised Jane not to take her father's denigration to heart. "Spencer used to do that to me all the time," Hepburn confides, a bombshell that is just brushed aside. The woman who made a public show of professional strength and agency, mostly playing women who had no patience for domineering men, actually chose to live a private life of self-imposed subjugation. She was a flawed human being, like the rest of us. The story of that dichotomy would make a great movie.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the image that Katharine Hepburn worked hard to present to the public. Do you think celebrities are role models for the rest of us? Why or why not?
What do you think it means to be an independent woman? Do you think that concept meant something different in the 1930s and 1940s?
Do you think being different is a good thing? Can you think of famous actors working today who seem as if they are not "typical" movie stars? Do you think their difference has either helped or hindered their careers?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming: May 12, 2023
- Director: Lorna Tucker
- Studio: Netflix
- Genre: Documentary
- Run time: 86 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: May 24, 2023
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